A long day and a long week. Now, time to kick back for a while and reassure ourselves.
Everybody has moments where they need some reassurance for a variety of reasons. For a few weeks now, I've had a sense of despair. You get up, go to work and do all the other things you have to do. There's also a sense of despair and at times of being abandoned.
You try not to dwell on it. You know that it's not your fault. Despite all that, it's still there.
One way to look at it is detoxifying (both physically and mentally). Being raped isn't your fault. You can't control what horrible people say and do. But, you also want some sense of validation. If someone feels like they've never had any reassuring physical contact for being a trauma survivor, what kind of effects does that have on someone? You could go thru the long explanation of there are no "definitive" studies on this, everyone's different, and more.
All of that may be true. However, we're talking about actual human beings. Not case files for a psychiatry journal.
We just try to reassure ourselves. It's not our fault. Take things in really tiny segments. It's okay to cry all day long.
Unfortunately, there is no instant cure for trauma.